I have posted this before, the use of the Kingdom Hall was offered to the family for my brothers service.
It was not convenient in proximity to where he was buried and since my Mother and I were the only witnesses in the family, (I was already faded)
I thought it would be better for friends and family to have it at the funeral home.
The witnesses were very accomadating and many came to the funeral to support my active JW mother.
The witnesses sent food to my mothers house daily a week before the service and for quite some time afterwards.
I found no one judgemental with the way my brother died. Maybe they felt distanced from it as he was not baptised.
I can only relay what we have experianced personally.
It was three years ago, and I would like to add the support shown from this board was awesome, I am still thankful.
purps