The 3rd study article in the June 15, 2009 issue of the Watchtower is entitled »Speak Truth With Your Neighbor«. It has as its opening subheading »Who Is Our Neighbor?«, which includes Paragraphs 4-7.
For those interested, page 17 is found in its entirety in a scan found at http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/watchtower/bible/180262/1/You-can-lie-to-apostates-but-not-the-elders-Aug-23-study-WT. This LINKED Topic has prompted me to start the Topic we are at here.
Paragraph 4 mentions that some Jewish leaders taught that the term "neighbor" was only to be applied to "worthy" individuals, such as fellow Jews or personal friends. In contrast, »We should regard all people as our neighbor, extending love even to those who act like enemies.« Scriptures cited in Paragraph 4 include John 14:9; John 4:5-26; Acts 10:28, 34-35; Matthew 5:43-45.
Paragraph 5 includes »By choosing our words carefully, even embarrassing or uncomfortable situations can be tactfully resolved without resorting to guile.« Scriptures cited in Paragraph 5 include Romans 12:9; Psalm15:1-2; Psalm 31:5; Colossians 3:9-10.
Paragraph 6 includes »Does being truthful with others mean that we must disclose every detail to whomever asks us a question? Not necessarily.« As an example, »Jesus said: "I will ask you one question. You answer me, and I will also tell you by what authority I do these things." When the scribes and older men were unwilling to give an answer, Jesus said: "Neither am I telling you by what authority I do these things." He did not feel obligated to answer the question in view of their corrupt practices and faithless example. Similarly today, Jehovah's people need to be on guard against apostates and other wicked men who use trickery or cunning for selfish purposes.« Scriptures cited in Paragraph 6 include Mark 11:27-33; Matthew 12:10-13; Matthew 23:27-28; Matthew 10:16; Ephesians 4:14.
Paragraph 7 includes »Yes, those who pry into the affairs of others or those who cannot be trusted to keep a confidence may find that others are reluctant to share personal information with them. How much better it is to heed Paul's inspired counsel: "Make it your aim to live quietly and to mind your own business." At times, however, congregation elders may need to ask questions about personal matters in order to carry out their assigned duties. In such a case, our cooperation in speaking truth is much appreciated and is a great help.« Scriptures cited in Paragraph 7 include 1 Timothy 5:13; 1 Thessalonians 4:11; 1 Peter 5:2.