Hi Syn,
I am also a JW. Come here to browse at times. Post seldom. Some think I'm still groggy and half asleep like the proverbial RipVanWinkle> I feel that I've seen a lot of changes in the past 50-60 years. Been in that long.
Lots of things I see that I don't like in my congo.. But I like the Bible and I feel that what I've learned from the "good Book" has helped me in my outlook immensely. In the final analysis, I'm not responsible for other peoples' actions. It's mainly between me and Jehovah. As far as people go, I've been devastated by many. It has put me down at times, but I'm not out. Just getting a different perspective of my relationships.
I feel that if I see a person down I want to help. I want to cheer somebody's day. I don't want to throw a wet blanket on anybody and I don't feel I have any right to try to criticize someone else for their choices. I haven't walked in their shoes and don't know where the holes, stones, nails etc. are or how they are feeling.
I do know that what I've lived through has helped me to have more
empathy toward others and I try to show it in my inter-relationship.
"Christianity" shouldn't be just a word. It should be a way of life.
Kind regards.
RVW