Beleivingexjw (btw, can you give me an acronym to call you by? bxjw?)
Thanks for explaining your premise. I disagree with it. I get where you are coming from, but I doubt most JW's come here to learn about ex JW's. If that is the case, thats cool. I am sure some do. We will probably have to agree to disagree on that.
You had an intriguing question that I think is the key to this...
So, is the catch that first a JW must realize their religion is no good and then they come here and learn their religion is no good?
Yeah, I think so. I don't think that a JW will come here in good faith, thinking they have the truth and be dissuaded otherwise. I do think that the internet community of former JW's primarily caters to those who are willing to be open minded, and thus, more tolerant of "loud" opinions.
Balance and fairness is rewarded with trust. Trust that what is said here is true and not distorted lies.
Again, this isn't that kind of website. This is a JW website dedicated to the expressions of JW's and former JW's (granted, mostly ex JW's) and not to the specific exposing of JW's. This is a forum, an opinion oriented website, not a factual website. Yes, there are more bloggers and opinion pieces here that should get more credence then to say, drag queen posters who think they are Jesus. (I am not kidding on that one). But that is the nature of THIS website. It is not indicative of all that is out there on the internet on JW's.
This website long ago was established on the expression of opinions about JW's. There are facts, and distortions that have to be sifted through. That is why I recommend personally freeminds.org, a website that I visited before I ever joined JWD/JWN or Ronnie's board. Freeminds is all facts, and bloggers who write op pieces there are clearly identified as such, along with a vast resouce of information for any honest JW who would be willing to investigate the real history of JW's.