"Women, you don't need to understand them, you just need to love them"
But sometimes you don't need that either :-)
Guys, are women hard to understand sometimes?
by asilentone 101 Replies latest social relationships
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palmtree67
From "The Color Purple":
"It's not my job to control her. My job is to love her and take her where she want to go."
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White Dove
ASO has been beating me over the head about my gawd awful, dumpy, frumpy, fat, flabby, pimply, sad, no confidence picture on that other thread, so why not kick his thread off the track a little bit?
'Sides, toilet seats is something guys don't tend to understand about women. Why not explain it a little? Not hijacking.
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palmtree67
Ok, here it is:
White Dove is correct - flushing sends bacteria into the air and it lands all over everything in the bathroom.
Close the seat and lid BEFORE you flush.
When guys leave the seat up it tells me 2 things:
1. You "flushed" your germs all over the bathroom. Gross.
2. You don't respect the next person who comes along to use the bathroom.
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asilentone
White Dove, you said it yourself, not me.
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White Dove
No, Asilentone, I was using sarcasm based on what you said by your insinuations and advice about how to change myself (as if I have never given a thought about self improvement a day in my life), and if I don't want to change myself, I'm doomed to "be like Mouthy" alone for decades. YOU said it.
You shite rules #1 and 2 all over me by insulting me about my perceived characteristics. Men in polite society don't do this to anyone, especially women.
You seem to me to view women as trophies to be won by men. Do you ever look a little deeper into their character? Do you view them as just as good as yourself, as equals?
Judging a person based on one picture is as myopic as one can get.
You want a Barbie Doll!
How tall are you? You sound like an elder I once knew who was 5'6". His wife was 5'5" and he wouldn't allow her to wear high heels because they made her taller than he. It's called "little man syndrome."
Do you think that when you got or will get into a relationship that you will be able to change the person?
You cannot change the person and that is why I'm so particular. I know that I will not be able to change anyone I end up with. Prudent shopping is smart shopping. I'm not going to figure that I'll change the person or that the person will change.
It doesn't work like that. When I get with someone someday, I'll figure that he is who he is and I'm not going to change him. I'll have to live with him as is and be happy.
Being busy with my education and kids for the past 10 years hasn't given me much time to even think of devoting to a relationship. Dating, yes; relationship, no.
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yknot
WD...
(hugs)
You are a beauty......just let your little light shine with that great smile of yours!
(and I did 'admonish' ASO on your other thread. I am sure his momma raised him better than to come off sounding like a drag-queen giving advice)
see my post at the bottom of the page....
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Men also really don't discern just how connected we are too our feelings!
When a guy figures that out fully, he usually has no problems in his relationships with women.
He discerns how his actions make a woman feel, and uses them accordingly
As my Granddaddy says......when Grandma is happy everyone is happy!
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yknot
maybe yall could kiss and make-up...
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THE GLADIATOR
White Dove: See, it's not my looks that make me invisible. It's something else that I can't put my finger on. Can't figure it out. And THAT is the big mystery in my life right now and ever since '94.
Wow! Had no idea you were that old.
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asilentone
WD, you have never thought about self improvement a day in your life? Maybe you need to date a blind person.