very interesting and well put story.
in many ways, I fight with the same troubles.
Our Congo is probably different ot the average conge. We have quit some well educated brothers, were you can even have deep discussions. Apparentely they did not take every word of the WTS as gold, since they took higher education for example.
The BOE is in general caring and reasonable. Just exclude some nonsense teaching of the WTS, and yes, the congo would be really a nice place...
the main question is: Can you do more good being in, even though by supporting the WTS some collateral damage will be done ? Or is it better to leave everything behind, following your own path of truth, but probably not being able to help anybody else ?
Once you turn officially apostate, nobody will listen to you anymore, you are in line with Satan then...