Sd-7 You are in charge. If you dont want to talk to them then tell them that you need to talk to your attorney first. 2.- whatever happens, whatever desicision they take it really means nothing, if they df you then you wont be able to talk to the people who dont really care for you anyway.
You are in charge! dont let them control your life anymore. hang on buddy, Most of us here are Dfd and we are happier than ever, but the road is no easy.
take care