Are JWs attracting more and more off-center people?

by undercover 38 Replies latest jw friends

  • restrangled
    restrangled

    Going back to the early days, My grandmother was raised a 7th day Adventist. She came from a wealthy family, but married a dirt poor, very handsome guy. (Mid 1920's)

    Broke, with a a couple of children in the middle of no where a witness called on her and gave her hope of one sort or another... a way out of her misery...(the end was coming). She grabbed on hook, line and sinker. She had a bunch more kids and they were all raised with the same hope.... relief from misery, and poverty. There was not much else at the time. No television, limited radio, and no way to get ahead. People grabbed on to anything they could. Reading provided a form of entertainment, and that Russel and Rutherford did in spades.

    My grandmother's kids raised their own kids in the JW religion.....90 percent now out. In between I think the JW religion attracted a lot of lost, lonely people. Again giving a false hope or a way out of their misery....soon now, very soon.

    IN the present day I can not imagine anyone actually joining the JW's unless its kids getting baptized, or foreigners under duress. They may get bible studies here and there, but they are soon cancelled. Anyone still hanging in is from my mom's generation. Anyone else is just hanging by a thread as evidenced by this site. I think there are armies of JW's out there too scared to access the Internet, confront their niggling doubts, or abandon family.

    JW's don't believe in hell, but they sure know how to create it within a family.

    r.

  • WalkTall
    WalkTall

    When the whole Heaven's Gate thing went down, I saw a video of those who joined. I remember thinking that many of them had somewhat of a normal existence before they joined the cult, but now they were spouting crazy stuff in all seriousness. What scared me at the time was that I wondered if that is how people looked at me. It was one of those thoughts that you push into the back of your mind because you don't want to believe that you yourself are in a cult. I'm not like them, I'd never eat poisoned pudding!!

    I joined at a young age. I was a shy person and I was pulled in by the love and acceptance. And everyone seemed so happy and friendly. It didn't seem crazy like those other cults. It was only after years of growth, maturity, learning, and observation that I came to realize that I indeed had gotten sucked into an off-centered world, and that crazy comes in many forms. No, I was not asked to eat poisoned pudding, but I gave up my life all the same. But, by then, I was in too deep.

    I do consider myself a normal person, but one who fell for a con. Yes, I had my years of blindly following and now I look back and wonder how I could have taken such a leave of my senses. I think it's partly because of the 'keep them busy' game. You get so involved in all the activities you don't have time to think. But one day I did, and I woke up. And I think those that do or who know that something is wrong, even if they stay for family reasons like me, are the only normal ones left.

  • RebeccaChi
    RebeccaChi

    This post is so funny! Who in their right mind would join this freak show in this day and age of technology? I remember being a teenager in the late 80's and we had a few creepers in our congregation who I could swear were studying just to try and hook up with the "young sisters". One guy must have been in his 40's or 50's and looked really bad for his age. His hair was yellowish gray and was all slicked back in one length. He he always wore a tight green suit that looked like a cheap knock-off of one worn by the Mamas and the Papas. There were several women around his age that were single (of course these gems would only be available if he got baptized) but he was always interested in those under the age of 20. He must have been a publisher because I remember him going out in service and trying to sit next to me in one of those standard field service minivans. He told me he wanted to find a nice young sister to pioneer with. Yuck!

  • RebeccaChi
    RebeccaChi

    bump

  • Think About It
    Think About It

    RebeccaChi- This post is so funny! Who in their right mind would join this freak show in this day and age of technology?

    I've not been in 15 yrs and after being brought up to speed on things here......I've actually contemplated going to the Memorial, April 15 WT study and perhaps 1/2 day of a circuit assembly just to see what the freak show has evolved into.

    Think About It

  • RebeccaChi
    RebeccaChi

    Think about it - I have been out for about the same amount of time and I'm sure things have to be pretty much the same. Maybe just more inbreeds.

  • TardNFeatheredJW
    TardNFeatheredJW

    I've been out for 18.

    I personally know of lots of narcissists, "recovering" drug addicts/alcholics, abusers, a few molesters, a whole bunch of control freaks, a lot of lonely people, a few devout and humble (not many), a lot of extreme judgemental types. A few paranoids.

    I suspect I fall into the paranoid, lonely type. Not so paranoid anymore (but they are out to get me ).

    I know of one guy who was 42 years old and married a girl 18 yrs old as soon as she graduated HS. That was f'd up, but no one seemed to bat an eye.

    I know of one guy in who was serving a sentence in Graterford Prison in PA who was dating a young girl from my hall. I worked in field circus with him when he was on weekend furlough. He was convicted for killing a guy in a bar fight. Nice to know that THAT can show up at your door, eh?

    I know several pedophiles, one girl my age who's step father diddled her. He kept going to meetings after, but she and her mom were DF'd for some reason. Not sure why, I was young and du(m)b then. I figured it was weird that he was okay and she was a "bad" person.

  • Mad Sweeney
    Mad Sweeney

    I think stating that they are "all" looney is just hyperbole. I'm sticking to my 20% loons number. There are a lot of normal people trapped in the cult because trapping people is what cults are good at doing.

  • Open mind
    Open mind

    Here's a rough quote from a couple of recently laid off Bethelites, now serving as Special Pioneers:

    "Whenever someone gets The Truth in the door-to-door work and makes it all the way to Baptism, IT'S A MIRACLE! It just doesn't happen that much anymore."

    The JW message is especially appealing to those who are emotionally vulnerable, either temporarily or permanently.

    om

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