It's been quite the week

by Lady Lee 28 Replies latest jw friends

  • Lady Lee
    Lady Lee

    I signed up for a Mindfulness course regarding chronic pain. We were 16 people and 3 leaders in a huge room. Sound bounced around and I had a terrible time hearing anything. So I was going past a store the other day and saw a sign for hearing tests. Why not. I know I have to keep asking people to repeat themselves.

    So they gave me a quick test. Stuck some huge earphones on me and told me there would be a series of tomes - 4 tones in each ear but he said few people heard the bottom ones so not to worry about hem.

    Out of the 8 tones I hear 1 ONE. Talk about shock. So I made an appointment for the full test.

    I went on Wednesday.

    It's worse than I thought. I have hearing loss in my right ear from mild to moderate and in my left ear from moderate to moderately severe.

    I know what deafness is. I was a sign language interpreter for years as a JW. Many in the deaf group were my best friends. Most of the people in the deaf group were profoundly deaf. I'm not there.

    When I called my older daughter last week I told her my hearing was worse than I thought. She said she wasn't surprised.

    The guy who did the test on Wednesday said he could see scarring on my ear drums meaning I may have had a lot of ear infections. I don't recall any but told him I sure got boxed on the head a lot as a kid.

    So I am being referred to an ENT (Ear/Nose/Throat) specialist to see if there is a physical problem. If so, maybe surgery. If not, then hearing aids.

    I will cope with this. It was just a shock at first. Not sure how long it will take to see an ENT specialist.

    IN the meantime I have quit the course. It was just too frustrating to miss half of what was being said. It made getting anything worthwhile out of it impossible.

    So that's my sad tale for the week

  • John Doe
    John Doe

    Well that sucks. Perhaps you'll get a cute doc to make it go smoothly.

  • Lady Lee
    Lady Lee

    I'm too old for the cute doctors to pay any attention to but thanks for the thought

  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    Good Evening Lady Lee!..

    Consider it a blessing in disguise..

    Now the problem can be addressed..

    And..

    Hearing won`t be a problem..

    Your better off for it..

    I`m happy for you..

    .......................

  • Gregor
    Gregor

    I have been a sick puppy recently (allergies leading to sinus infection). Finally went to the Doc. In the course of my exam she remarked that my ears were both impacted with wax. Her assistant came in with the complete firehose treatment. Yuucch! I have always carefully cleaned my ears with car keys, paper clips and sometimes q-tips. But they got stuff out that looked like it had been in there since high school. My hearing improved immediately.

    Lady, I know you have been through all the exams and this is not your situation, but I thought I would mention my experience. The good news is that hearing enhancement technology is fantastic these days. You have something to look forward to when the problem is corrected.

    Best wishes

  • leec
    leec

    You've already scaled mountains; this is just another inconvenient hill.

  • nugget
    nugget

    At least you know there is a problem and are doing something about it. As Leec said there is so much that can be done now to improve hearing so hopefully things will get better from here on in. Bad news is never pleasant but in this case you needed to know. Perhaps you can sign back on the course when the hearing issue is resolved it would be a shame to miss out on important information completely.

  • Lady Lee
    Lady Lee

    Gregor I'm surprised you have your eardrums intact. - paperclips??? OUCH I recently met someone who had a state-of-the-art hearing aid. It was pretty awesome and she loved it. I'm sure things have improved a lot in the last 20 years in listening devices

    OUTLAW You always can make me smile.

    leec I agree. Just one more hill. When I was a kid one of my favorite songs was Climb Every Mountain. I now know why.

    nugget I see no reason to continue to deny the problem. I know disabilities well. IAfter I left the JWs I had a couple of jobs working for people with a wide range of disabilities. And I dated men with mobility problems (MS and CP). who were deaf and 2 who were blind (lived with one for 2 1/2 years). Of them all I thought deafness was the worst. Now I'm not so sure. The technology is very different and has vastly improved. So since I am already using a wheelchair I think going blind would be the worst.

    Thnaks everyone

  • ninja
    ninja

    I tried calling to leave some encouragement............but you obviously didn't hear the phone

    he he

    da ninja

  • Mad Sweeney
    Mad Sweeney

    Good luck, Lady Lee. Hope they can do something for you.

    On the plus side, you already know sign language.

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