OnTheWayOut, slow burn by a slow fade. I've got too much family in the Organization to just rip the band-aid off and say, "I'VE HAD ENOUGH - I'M LEAVING!" Maybe one day, when fake service time becomes no service time and flaky meeting attendance becomes none at all, they'll make the announcement. Really though, when they make those announcements, there's this hush of silence for a moment, a couple whispers, a bit more of silence and the meeting goes on. A few months of talking about it (if you were popular) and then most people have forgotten you by then. Most friends in the JW circle I don't really care about losing (he was part of a small group of exceptions), it's just the family I don't want to lose. I'd like to be able to play the little loophole of "not baptized and left? well...he's not disfellowshipped!"
Torn