On The Way Out said "Brother, I am fine. I don't wish for a shepherding visit. I don't wish to discuss my feelings or concerns with you. I have my WT Library and I know how to pray and I know how to find you guys if I ever wish to get your help."
That worked for me for 3 years. Due to the continued harrassment of my ex in-laws, I was recently DA'd based on my "actions" which include not going to meetings and not participating in service. They couldn't prove immorality or anything interesting like that to get me DF'd though it was not for a lack of trying! lol.
If you don't have super righteous a-hole ex relatives out to get you, this plan may work.