JW sister told my newly widowed mom that it would "look bad"if

by aquagirl 29 Replies latest jw experiences

  • sd-7
    sd-7

    Right. Well, if your sister has an alternative way of getting your mom there, then great. But regardless, isn't everyone welcome at all meetings of Jehovah's Witnesses? If so, then why does appearance matter here? This seems to go against even the rules of the organization. I know they are more about appearances than anyone, but that just isn't an issue here. Be there for your mom, don't worry about anything else.

  • palmtree67
    palmtree67

    Only the JW's give a rat's arse about how things "appear".

    **sigh**

  • BabaYaga
    BabaYaga

    You rock, AquaGirl. Yes, she's jealous. Yes, you're doing the right thing.

    Love,
    Baba.

  • daringhart13
    daringhart13

    wow. I wonder how this type of attitude starts.

    The Bible plainly states that he that doesn't provide for his own family is worse than a man without faith-- 1 Tim. 5:8

    The honoring your father and mother is the FIRST COMMAND with a promise - Eph. 5

    Is it that easy for some to completely ignore the Word of God?

  • truthseekeriam
    truthseekeriam

    Your mom will be proud to have you at her side..forget the self righteous you know what!

  • nugget
    nugget

    This is an arrangement between you and your parents and no one else. If your mother says she would prefer to go with someone else then that is her decision to make. I always felt memorial night was a family time and I am sure your mum does too. Your sister is jealous that you have the freedom of being out of the organisation and you still have a relationship with your mum.

  • White Dove
    White Dove

    Your sister is jealous because you are doing everything she knows that SHE should be doing. You are a good daughter

  • pirata
    pirata

    How in the world could that look bad? JW's should be happy that a "lost sheep" is attending the memorial with their parents.

  • yknot
    yknot

    I say go all out!!!!!

    Make dinner arrangements, invite some of your mom's JW friends too!

    Buy new dresses and take lots of pictures!

    A little 'pic' to Aquagirls jealous sister's ACTIONs.....

  • aquagirl
    aquagirl

    First of all,Thanks to you all.What a cool bunch.And no,my mum dosent drive. The aliens say that the dimpled chads were a simple mistake,JFK was the CIA and the anal probe thing is a myth made up by homophobic earthlings.They probe us thru our nostrils.Folks with lots of sinus issues,are regularly getting investigated by aliens. Dissed,Ive thought before,you and I should meet and compare our experiances.They sound eeerily similar..LOve to you all,and the aliens say,"g'dasko!' They like us btw,but think we are weird.lol

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