Thanx TM. I'm ok with it all. It was coming to the realization, as willyloman put it, that there is no room for toxic relationships in my life now. Good analogy, Yknot, of putting down a sick pet.
I don't think this guy will ever figure it out, and my beating of my head against the wall trying to get him to do so was indeed, toxic for me.
I had a bit of a rough day yesterday. I am fine now. I worked out some of my frustration in the flower beds today. Good therapy.
Jeff