Ynot - Hubby dips on occassion?
I did a little work one time with the husband of my wifes Bible study. He was 'dipping' on the job and then had an epiphany, 'I could tell my wife and she could tell his wife'. "Please don't tell her I'm doing this?!" He promised her he had quit a long time ago.
I asked him why he didn't quit. It had nothing to do with addiction as he told me. It was a guy thing, and all the guys did it. Plus, the peer pressure, "Don't let your wife tell you what to do"
So my thinking, he was more concerned what his buddies thought than his wife, who was more concerned about his health and example for the kids.