How often does anyone see cheating happening throughout the congregation?
Reason that I ask this is because it happened to me. I dated this girl that was also in the congregation for 3 years. In this three years things seemed to go great. I was pioneering. She was pioneering. I was on track to becoming a ministerial servant. Been through Pioneer School. Was talking about getting married. Planning our life together. Moving to Alaska and both being pioneers up there. We had even briefly talked about going to bethel. Life seemed good. One day out of the blue, she says we have to stop seeing each other. When I ask why, she proceeds to tell me that she has been dating another guy (whom I have known for a little while) for the past year and they are getting married in a couple months! I am pissed and go to the elders. Apparently she already had. Her dad is an elder. She got off scot free. She stayed a pioneer, he became a pioneer, and I got privately reproved for "entering into an established relationship". That was a serious turning point for me. I realized then that I don't want to do this. I never did get an privleges back either.
Has anyone ever seen anything like this before?