Life really is to short for all of this.
After being told that I'm not really happy and that I'm only pretending to be happy and that its not possible to happy outside of the organization, I'm no longer surprised by anything these people print. After leaving, I was surprised at the moral restraint of non-JWs. I thought they were accountable to know one so they did whatever. Well, they do have a sense of accountability either to their God or mankind. Overall, they are a good bunch.
And yes, most JWs are ill-equipped to live in the real world.