Open mind said
Could you perhaps flesh out your idea a bit more Quillsky?
I'll say again what I said in my opening post.
The disfellowshipping system is ...."the most genius cult tool ever invented."
It really is. It's why so many of us post in fear. It's why so many of us have family members who don't speak to us. It's why I weigh my words and don't tell you too much about me.
Of course we all need to communicate with people who have been through what we've been through. But at the root of all that is the fear of being disfellowshipped, or the pain of having been disfellowshipped, or the agony of seeing people we love be disfellowshipped.
Why else would we be be posting on a board of previous (and current) members of a cult that believes that everyone besides cult members are about to be obliterated by their god?