Oh Tammy - well if you're not then that's that. I overanalyzed this situation too much I would just ignore him or tell him to knock it off. Case closed.
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Is this secret code for 'have an affair with me' ?
by tec 48 Replies latest social relationships
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mrsjones5
Next time you see him ignore him big time. Don't look at him, don't smile if he moves in your sight. Act like he crossed a line, which he really did, and he's now invisible. He'll get the message.
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tec
Thanks everyone! For the laughs, and for the fact that I don't feel so silly and paranoid anymore.
No worries, for those of you advising me not to be alone with the guy. That situation would never arise, unless he tried to manipulate it, but I'm too aware for that now.
Nugget - I don't want to bring my hubbie into this as it stands right now, because he would totally bypass the light-hearted, albeit dumb, flirting, and skip straight to the creepy, dangerous weirdo. Mr. Tec is extremely (sometimes unbearably) protective.
I believe I'll ignore him, unless he doesn't take the hint and instead progresses, in which case I will tell him I'm not interested. We'll see what happens tomorrow at school.
Tammy
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tec
Nugget - reread your post. Yes, bringing my hubbie without necessarily mentioning all of this to him, should get the point across that I'm not interested. I'll keep that in mind.
Mrs. Jones - Thanks. I'm glad you think he's crossed a line. I think that too, but wondered if I was being too tough on a simple flirting.
I overanalyzed this situation too much
LOL. Terry - you're taking a few second-handed hits on my thread. But at least you have become enlightened about the mysteries of INTO it (shin) :-)
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troubled mind
If it were me ....tomorrow I would hand back his business card ,and tell him my husband and I are not interested . Or in the very least give him back the card just so he realizes you have no intention of ever calling him . Then just start avoiding him completely .
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av8orntexas
Since you're married, I take it you have a ring on. If not, he sounds like he's interested. I agree with an earlier poster. Pretty wierd way to go about it. But yes, sounds like the guy wants to get to know you in some sort of fashion.
I'd just cut to the chase and ask if you'd like to take in lunch/dinner, and a movie.
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Darth plaugeis
when he walks by you, he doesn't walk like this does he?
Or is it like this Because there is a difference.
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upnorth
I'd have to say you are being hit on
If he tries this I'd say he is definitely hitting on you
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stillajwexelder
sounds like interest to me
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JeffT
I'm surprised he hasn't had his kid pass your kid a note in study hall. Whatever he's up to, it is about that level of sophistication.
Or is it like this 
