Min,
I was none of those. Being of the mindset "bad associations spoil useful habits", I did not try to fit in with the world and unfortunately I did not fit in the congregation either. I had no friends for most of my youth. Because of a rumor that was spread about me, many thought I was weird and tried to avoid me or at best they were civil.
I happened to be thinking along the lines of this topic when I saw your post. Food at the proper time eh?