"Green Handshakes", ,,,,,silly, silly me !
I tried reaching out for several years, did EVERYTHING I was expected to do and never got the coveted MS position.
I thought just doing my best to serve God was all that was needed.
Only once did my wife and I have the CO over for lunch, so the green handshake might have been the missing link
Many of the guys appointed, or moved up the ladder were always all over the CO like flies on a hot fresh pile of crap.