Psychotic Parrot
No one knows whether or not there was anything before the big bang yet. We do not know.
Maybe it was God, maybe it wasn't. God is one explanation among many (i listed the others in my first post).
My point is that these arguments do not prove God, they merely posit God.
This seams to me to be a fair and rational position. It invites discussion about whether the cause of our universe was God or are their other possibilities.
The obvious question was asked, where did God come from? There is a school of thought that God does exist but is a part of the unsolved mystery, not the beginning or ultimate cause. Does there have to be a beginning any more than there has to be an end or is that a human perspective? How could time begin or stop?
The mistake is to assume that an open minded discussion about these matters makes one an atheist. Or that the motive of someone who is not certain of God, is to trash other peoples faith.
I personally believe that some people actually benefit from their faith and am not sure that they would be happier if they lost it. Even those with faith still spend a lot of time on this board rationalising and trying to make sense of their beliefs. They often cannot come to the same conclusions as others who have faith. But their faith offers them a feeling of security while they grow and learn.
You see I said, 'I personally believe.' Some would say I am mistaken in my belief but it is my belief, therefore it is subjectively real. The difference is, my belief can only become objectively real, or real outside of myself, if I can demonstrate beyond doubt that my assertion is true. This rule has to be applied to belief of any kind if we are to be honest in our argument.
For most people, there are no two absolute sides. We are all seekers of truth, which is why we left the JWs.