I'm another Newbie

by MyMy 74 Replies latest jw friends

  • Pork Chop
    Pork Chop

    Bendrr, flower, you're 100% right. It's like some kind of mass hallucination is going on.

  • beepers
    beepers

    hey cygnus-

    If the Wtbts isn't worried about their stand. Why then is there a need for a gag order?

    Amy

  • rem
    rem

    Haha - Brutal, Cygnus. I love it!

    Perhaps some of us were on H20 way back when we had a so called Governing Body member taking us all for a ride. I think a little skepticism is in order here. And even if this is all for real, they are going after the wrong freaking guys. The elders are just pawns following orders from HQ. Brooklyn is where the decision makers are and that is where change will have to come from. This little episode is not going change policy.

    And no, I am not, nor do I support pedophiles. And before someone accuses me of just sitting on my ass and not caring for the children, take into consideration that I've helped many more people out of this organization than I have ever helped recruit into it.

    rem

    "We all do no end of feeling, and we mistake it for thinking." - Mark Twain
  • plmkrzy
    plmkrzy

    mymy/Danni
    "I loved the drama you caused in here,
    we are still talking about it today".
    THAT I believe.

    For those of us who have really been hurt, and I know there are
    a lot, don't let someone make a joke of it. Think about the things they are saying and the convience of a lot of it. I personally, and
    I can only speak for myself, grew tired of hanging on jokers puppet strings a long time ago.
    But the worst thing that can possibly come out of this..
    if it is a gag, maybe another lesson.
    Sorry to be such a piissimist. It comes from very hard knocks
    The end will be here in the fall? Are you sure it wasn't the winter? or maybe they said the spring. I'll call one of my parents
    up tomorrow and ask when the new deadline for Armeg was posted.
    Just because most people in this form have major differences with
    the JW as a society does not mean being automaticly out of touch
    with whats what.

  • flower
    flower

    Rem,

    exactly. the people sitting in the hall during the meetings have no idea whats going on. they honestly believe they are in Gods only 'true' organization. they dont know any of the things that go on behind closed doors. they dont know any of the false prophecies and double standards and all the other things that prove the Society is a fraud.

    they are innocent victims that were subjected to that display and i guarantee you that for most of them it will only further cement in their minds the fact that the 'world' is wicked and Satan is the leader of the world.

    if the goal of ex jw's who care is to get their friends, family members, and fellow victims out of there then they are so wrong in thinking this is the way to go about it.

    if i was present during a display like this, even in my df'd state, i would run back to the org and become reinstated, thinking to myself 'geez, this really must be the truth since they are making up lies and attacking us'. of course this reasoning makes no sense to you guys but its how jw's think, at least all the ones i've ever known in my life. 'they persecuted me and they will persecute you also'..remember? i'm sure that scripture was being read by a lot of them afterwards.

    not only that but why and how could they do that with children present?

    of course this is just being written from the point of view that this so called meeting actually took place. in the posts i have read no one has given any kind of proof that it did and i'm far from convinced. i cant imagine any elders inviting them to the hall to discuss this on a meeting night and then discussing it from the platform with 200 people present. that is so far fetched its hilarious. and the elders cursing and getting ready to physically fight the cops?? puleeeeeaase.

    but then again, i think the whole idea of the organization i grew up in and who's teachings i whole heartedly believed to the point of trying to murder myself for not living up to the standards being a fraud is so far fetched that its hilarious also.

    i am one confused chick to say the least! but i'm basically convinced of the latter and hardly convinced of the former.

    flower

  • tyydyy
    tyydyy

    Mymy,

    I have a couple of questions for you. Not necessarily to attack but to clarify for everyone here who may have some suspicions. If you are outing yourself then there should be no hesitation in your answers.

    You said

    I believe the last big exciting event that took place here was back in the 1970s when we all got a visit from the Brooklyn office telling us what a great job we are doing trying to save others just before the new system arrived in the fall.
    Then you said
    have been a Jehovah's Witness for 22yrs. I married a woman a witness woman and the rest is history.
    Now basic math......2002 - 22 yrs = 1980 How is it "we all got a visit" back in the '70s?

    Also you said:

    they are not going after your job.It's all an act to keep you scared and,from going public with what you know (meaning the tape). This came straight from the mouth of the "speakerphone".
    If you were in the main hall then how did you know what was said from the speakerphone? Who was on the speakerphone? (A pretty important piece of info that you left out) If you were in the back room, why didn't you mention that fact?

    You Said:

    I want to put in add some information Danni left out. Namely this: The phone number about Bill Bowen is (718)560-5000. Now there's a catch to getting the information . You have to prove where you are calling from and what congregation you are with. You have to give out your name and address. They will talk about Bill but, only answer certian questions they are covering their own asses. That's what they didn't tell you Danni. They are pulling your chain they knew you wouldn't call that number.
    Where did you get that phone #? Were you in the room at the time? Did you have a pen handy to write down? How do you know they will ask all those questions when you call that number? Did you call the number? If you weren't in the room and you didn't overhear the number and write it down, how did you get the phone number? I have a hard time imagining you asking one of the elders in the room, who have just been attacked by apostates, "Hey do you mind if I have the phone number to ask about this apostate website?" Why didn't you reveal your sources and add credibility for those you are asking to "join" with you? If you are willing to take the lead in this mass exit from the JW's then you should have no problem explaining these questions.

    Keep in mind, I am not attacking you at all. I am merely asking questions before I "join". Do you understand that when someone asks an EX-JW to JOIN something that there will be some questions before they just jump on the band wagon?

  • MyMy
    MyMy

    Rem, it's not just the little guys I am after it's all those who support the murder, molesting, shunning, and other doctrines that has nothing to do with the Bible that I want to put an end to. That's why I am here. It's time for me to tell my family now. All those that want to go after this let me know tomorrow. All those who just want to talk shit don't bother coming in here I don't have time for your childish shit.

    Plmkrzy I understand your concern but when someone tries to make a differences for the better of all don't be so quick to prevent it. If we work together we can do this. If there weren't so many people trying to hinder the work of those who are actually out there trying to make chances, chances would come and the pain we all have suffered because of these doctrines would end we could start rebuilding our lives again. Just think about it.

  • Will Power
    Will Power

    When I was a kid, and got mad or fighting with brothers or whatever, My mother (not a jw) would always ask me "What would Jesus do?"

    Well I'm pretty sure He wouldn't cuss, ask for gag orders, or men behaving badly. Of course we are all human but some sure portray and are looked up to as models in any situation.

    Its kind of like trying to bring down the mafia. People won't talk, everyone knows whats going on [save the wife & kids], enuf with the crime. You have to start small and look for a serpico or valachi to get to the top of the tower.

    A new documentary needs to be done.

    Good Luck to all, I'm fightin the good fight with ya.

  • flower
    flower

    "All those that want to go after this let me know tomorrow. All those who just want to talk shit don't bother coming in here I don't have time for your childish shit.
    "If there weren't so many people trying to hinder the work of those who are actually out there trying to make chances, chances would come and the pain we all have suffered because of these doctrines would end we could start rebuilding our lives again. Just think about it."

    since when is asking questions and being cautious and skeptical 'hindering' the work? doesnt it seem odd to you that someone who is upset because of the organizations mind control and lies would then ask us to do the same thing as the org has made us do all those years?....

    namely, 'dont question or try to find proof of what I am telling you, just believe it cause I said its true'. 'if you ask questions and try to make me prove what i am saying, its because you are 'childish' and i 'dont have time for your shit'.

    sounds kinda like kicking someone out of the org because they ask too many questions.

    guess i'm not welcome to join your little crusade either because i refuse to give up my free right to think for myself and ask questions of anything i need clarification on. i was given a brain for a reason and i wont be blindly following anyone again ever. the truth is always the truth and it can always stand up to scrutiny.

    .2

    flower

  • OUTLAW
    OUTLAW

    Hey MyMy,I hope you go for it.Don`t worry about the skeptics,some have been burned before,so you can`t blame them.Others have never seen or heard of anything like this before.Then theres always the jerk who dosen`t know how to make a run on sentence,into two sentences...OUTLAW

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