Yes mag, it is. I will post the outline if you'd like, but i doubt anyone wants to see it. I have to agree with Cook. Not all elders are willing to go there. I will gladly talk with a younger brother one on one if they want but that is it. I would hope any man would have a talk like that with a younger guy if he needed it. However you have not will you ever catch this elder giving or addressing any of those topics from the platform. and as for the no foreplay thing... i've never heard that. If it were true i'd be DF'd for what me and Mrs did last night for sure..
The no oral/anal is of course true and well documented by WT standards, but no one ever has seen or shown me anything that proves the branch comes down on simply "foreplay" among MARRIED people. of course they make it a JC matter if you are unmarried.
We do a diservice when we exagerate things. there is enough that is wrong without getting carried away making things up or taking them out of context. We have all the facts needed to prove how wacko this thing is with what is really in print.