I'd rather be having sex than going to a meeting talking about it. Sheesh!
Meeting topics that cover sex
by Libelle 44 Replies latest watchtower beliefs
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elderelite
I'll bite.
( are you testing me Mrs jones?)
Perhaps this is the difference in what I am saying and what you two fine ladies are saying... Doing the housework, in and of itself, did not get your man laid. You already loved your man and wanted to be intimate with him and perhaps him helping around the house let you go to bed earlier thus leading to a little more fun for all. Fair enough. My point is that if I walk into a bar and say to a pretty gal, "hey I'll do the dishes if you sleep with me".. this is not going to get the desire result. Thus, doing house work doesn't, in and of itself, get you laid. But i do understand being kind and thoughtful, which may include housework, can lead to the promised land.
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Libelle
Fair enough. My point is that if I walk into a bar and say to a pretty gal, "hey I'll do the dishes if you sleep with me".. this is not going to get the desire result. Thus, doing house work doesn't, in and of itself, get you laid. But i do understand being kind and thoughtful, which may include housework, can lead to the promised land.
I think as a pick-up line, for someone looking for casual sex, of course it doesn't work. But for long-term partners living together, that's a whole different ballpark, household work can make the difference between a peck on the cheek or serious romping.
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elderelite
again, I understand but if you are having marital problems and your man says "hey honey I'm going to do the dishes and afterwords lets go upstairs and have sex" it isn't going to fly. The housework, in and of itself, does not equal intimacy. The housework only helps when everything else is already there, when you ALREADY were willing to be intimate. Thus I say without fear or hesitation, housework does not equal sex
(but I understand it dosent hurt)
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cognizant dissident
It depends if your language of love is "acts of service".