Well, I've always been a sucker for a man with a way with words, so that'll reel me in every time. But all words and no action run shallow after a while. To sustain the attraction, it's all in the touch.
The other three tie at the bottom. I could wrap them all up in one word: thoughtfulness. I don't want expensive gifts but I appreciate small and thoughtful. I don't need someone around 24/7 but an hour of undivided attention goes along way. I don't need a manservant, I can do most things for myself, but a cup of tea and an aspirin when I have a headache, takes a few minutes and is very thoughtful.
I do want all five, but I consider myself pretty low-maintenance as far as women go. 27 years married to a JW man who totally ignored me help to make me so.