Email exchange just a minute ago:
Him: "I just wanted to let you know that I never had any intention of causing any harm. And I apologize for anything that seemed that way."
Me: "It was sleazy. I'm not that kind of person. Married men have reason to hide that kind of Sin City behavior in the refuge of parks. Sneaky, sleazy, and not at all respectful of the other's dignity. Women who agree to such behavior have issues and are sent to...YOU. Oops, a bit unethical, wouldn't you say?"
This sleaze bag is in the mental health profession. This is a huge faux pas for a person in his occupation. I've studied ethics in depth, and this is a serious breach of trust. You cannot encourage a person to do something to themselves or others that would put them at risk, in this case mentally/emotionally/disorderly. He would face scrutiny if caught. It's a career wrecking thing. Remember the politician busted in a tea room?