I believe that the Christian faith, or any other for that matter cannot be understood without relationships.
Most Atheist debates come down to the morality of God not his possible existence ! Things such sexual abuse cannot help but open
the door about love, caring and our place in the universe ! When you allow even a crack in you deeply held core values .. it opens the floodgates to so much more !
There is no understanding of God's love or any love without relationships !!
We learn lessons not in denying the feelings but to find the meanings underlying them