I bid you welcome, braveheart.
It sux to have family in, doesn't it? I was a born- in and left two years ago. Yep, I walked away from my so-called "friends". It was only recently that I signed up here to discover just how deep the rabbit hole goes. I wish my family would wake up but I don't want to rock the boat. I know full well, though, that I might lose them at some point. There is no point in telling people things they're not ready to hear. Good luck and best wishes...
V665
PS: Calling someone out means starting an argument with them about something you strongly disagree with. Don't do that right off the bat. Best you not do it at all. Have fun here.