So, you're saying that some women send out mixed signals?
Yes.
Some let themselves go and that is not sexy.
Men and women.
Or, they may bitch and bitch about this or that and sound like sex is the last thing on their mind, when it isn't.
See your comment on "mixed signals".
I don't think sexy comes in one size.
It doesn't, but there are definitely sizes it doesn't come in.