Hmmmm... looks like two possibilities to me (though I could be wrong... and peace to you all!):
1. Someone... "refused" to marry someone... on some "grounds"... but didn't have all the facts as to those grounds, expossing the boyz in Bethel to some... ummm... unwanted legalities. Like being sued for slander. OR...
2. Someone wanted to marry someone... and didn't have "grounds"... but because the boyz in the hood... uh, local congregation... LIKE him/her... it's been decided to "don't ask/don't tell" whether someone has grounds but just take their word for it.
That NONE of it is anyone else's business anyway... but solely between the no longer married couple... and God... is never gonna be admitted. Or taught (no way the local boyz'll give up living vicariously through the "juicy" personal revelations they get on a congregational level).
Ah, well. Thank, YKnot... and peace to you!
A slave of Christ,
SA