My experiences that have turned me away.....

by agent86 25 Replies latest jw experiences

  • agent86
    agent86

    SO SO SO true, they think they can also be marriage counsellers, drug counsellers, alchol counsellers and the list goes on!!!! But there are people wheo are trained to deal with these situations, reading a verse from their holly book isnt going to help the person who is innocent.

    I just wonder that it gives them a sense of power knowing everyones bussiness and it doesnt just stay with them... somehow the wives find out about the little meetings and there it goes the volcano has erupted and the gossip has started like lava....

  • watersprout
    watersprout

    Reading your story was heart wrenching...You have shown how strong you are by how you have started to heal from that nightmare! You are very lucky to have your husband and children out...My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

    Peace and light

  • MMXIV
    MMXIV

    I've re-read this again because it keeps opening up new debates in my mind. What happened was wrong on so many levels. Even as adults being falsely accused of such a crime could and probably would ruin your life, as I've heard in recent news stories.

    Interesting point about how information does leak about JC's. Gossip is a powerful weapon of control in the truth.

    thank you again for sharing such a life story

    mmxiv

  • Lozhasleft
    Lozhasleft

    Agent - Hello and welcome. A terrible story ...so glad you're managing to start healing at last.

    Loz x

  • snakeface
    snakeface

    Welcome and thanks for posting your story. I am so sorry you went thru all this. There are many elders who are downright wicked.

  • agent86
    agent86

    Seriously, people still refer to the religion as the "truth" I can honestly say I dont call it the "truth" as I see it the "truth" doesnt make people feel like this.

    You have no idea how life was for me and its still wrecking me but talking about it now and having you all there for supprt is amazing. I couldnt talk to anyone before and just now I have opened up. My husband cried when I first told him, he knew how much I loved kids and really its put me off and I know I will never be the same.

    Again I do understand that you need to beleive what kids say as a friend of mine just told me that she was molestered by an elder and they did nothing about it... She stopped a while ago going to the meeting but she is still in pain having to go thru this with her family having no one believe her.

    :[

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