Tammy...I agree with Berengaria. Sounds to me like you are a good person, simple as that...you don't need belief in a god to be that.
I think doing good for the sake of good, is TRUE goodness (if that makes sense). Doing good because a god will punish you if you don't, and give you presents if you do is shallow and selfish. I'm not accusing you of being that, just saying that most religions are based on reward/punishment. It's a paradox.
Belief in a god is a potentially dangerous and powerful "drug" for the mind. This is a dangerous combination: believing the most supreme being in the universe is on your side, combined with believing he has an agenda for you to play out...but the catch is, everyone determines/chooses for themselves what that agenda is. For example, they think shunning is showing love, but the very act is pure evil. But their belief that this supreme being wants them to do it, fuels their actions of hate. Without that "god fuel" would their be less hateful actions? I believe so.
But anyways...Terry and Berengaria nailed it...
"If we were without the idea of god, things would be better. The world is without god, it is the notion that causes so much trouble."