by Big Softie 41 Replies latest jw experiences
Saying you committed in adultery to a judge, in some states, can mean legal and financial loss during a divorce.
Quoted for emphasis.
Also, in some juristictions it is not legally considered adultery if you have sex with someone after the date of your separation, thus making it none of your ex's business if you're seeing someone now, or if you intend to. Check the laws in your area.
NEVER make yourself look bad so that others can save face. It's never appreciated.
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Think about your children. Would you like it getting back to them that you cheated on their mother, especially if it isn't true? Don't make her problems with the cult your own. By letting her suffer the consequences of being a jw, maybe she'll wake up and eventually leave the cult. Then you'd have done her a really BIG favor.
Edited to add:
If she wants to marry, she can..... she can just go right ahead.....get DFd.... sit in the back row for however many months her church Elders prescribe.... and keep her fingers crossed that Jehovah doesn't drag his butt out of the privy and kill her before her re-instatement.
That's very funny, Black Sheep!
