My mom was not a hoarder, just the opposite. She only saved certain things. BUT..she went through a spell where she never cleaned house or cooked..I don't know what she did all day. I think she slept all day because she would start talking to herself about how rotten her relatives were (they were Catholics lol) around 3 am and wake me. My dad and my brother seemed to be able to sleep through it. I had a hard time going to school the next day. I was so tired and hungry all the time.
She eventually got a job for the first time and did wonderful..she was almost normal.
It's funny how some react to their situations, even reading here I am amazed at how differently people handle stress in their lives.
Snoozy