A true story from my past . A young mid teen lad had been living in U S A with his Aunt. His Mother was a divorcee in the U K on a low income so , I guess he took a good opportunity for a while. He returned,newly baptized. The American congregation wrote and said they liked him but said to look out for his "tricks" and untruths....but they had still baptized him.
Back with Mum he was an engaging character with personality. However he soon got into trouble with various ones and at school . He became a delinquent, was taken to Juvenile Court for theft and so...was disfellowshipped.
Now he has grown up..He has no part of J W's. Lets hope he has a regular life, but of course his mother still has nothing to do with him. She has lost her son and why?.............Because he was baptized as a boy when things meant little and he was too immature to think of the long term. If he had never been baptized at least his mother might still have a son!