White Dove, I'm sorry you had to go through this, I'm sure it was very hurtful. It's very sad that he was willing to say such things. I have read recently that the brain is not really fully developed in kids that age; hopefully when he matures a bit things will get better.
I don't know why some people on this board are so willing to jump in and condem someone base on very little informaton. I wouldn't take it too seriously.