Why oh why oh why????
See my dad is df’d. he’s been df’d all my life. He got df’d a year before I was born. For 25yrs he has been on the “outs” with the WTS. My mom who is still active raised my brother and me alone in the truth. They divorced when I was 3yrs old.
Yet, he thinks very much like a typical elder; A BIG OL’HYPOCRITE! Idk what rank and file my dad had, but the conversation I just had with him last night, you’d think he’s on the GOV body.
This ol hypocrite had the nerve to call me at 11pm right before bed to tell me I’m not in my proper place?? Excuse me?
Since I have a world boyfriend - who is the worst of the worst according to him because he was in the US army directly under Satan’s control-I’m falling into the clutches of the devil and his mechanisms? What?
And he proceeded to tell me my relationship will not last. It’ll be over in six months flat. I will be left by him and on my ass out in the cold. And since I’m so dumb, I will pregnant soon, and the guy will be long gone.
WTF???
Please understand I hardly see me dad; haven’t seen him in person in two years, just phone calls here and there. He lives pretty far, but this past Sunday he came to visit my older brother and I. Well just like the typical dead-beat dad that he has proven to be, he didn’t call to say whether or not he was coming. Well being the adult I am I made plans with my boyfriend and left. But surprise, surprise he did show up; however I was already gone.
I get back home around 11pm or so because I had to get ready for work. My dad is still at OUR house. He looked me up and down; I say hello and hug him; and that’s about it. I go to bed.
The whole basis of his phone call was tell me on that day when I came home, I had looked like I had been f*cking all afternoon. I looked wild. I looked dead in the eyes. My hair was all crazy. He could see how deplorable my life is now because I left the truth?
O….M…G
I had been walking all day. My boyfriend lives in the city. We walk everywhere or take public transportation. I was tired from a fun-filled day. And no, actually we hadn’t had any relations that day because we didn’t have time.
I asked where he gets the audacity to speak to me that way. He said, “I’m your dad.”
I said, “I don’t give a f*ck who you are. You do not speak to me that way.
He said, “Someone has to put you in your place. You think you are a princess. Ain't no princesses in my family. Nobody is setting you straight. Everybody is letting you do what you want. I’m going to tell you what’s going to happen to you!’
I was livid!! I turned into Incredible Hulk!!! I went off on him. I have never, ever, ever cursed anyone out. NEVER!
I can’t remember everything. I kind of blacked out.
Only thing I remember him saying was that he is going to be the one who told me so. He never wants to meet my boyfriend and I need to go to the elders and get denounced the right way. I
Today I feel so sad. I cried. I cursed out my own father? Who does that? My mom said I should have just hung up the phone in his face.
I do believe you’re supposed to honor your father and mother, but he had no right to speak to me like that. I kept asking him, how does he know that my relationship is going to fail. What evidence does he have? Why can’t he see I’m happy just living my life? He couldn’t respond to that at all.
He kept saying I’m making the worst decision ever, and I will regret it. I’ll be begging to sit back in the kingdom hall. That I’m really not happy and I will suffer all the consequence. He even went on to say HE doesn’t wasn’t to speck to ME?!!
I’m beyond angry. I’m beyond hurt. I can’t wrap my head around him. I can’t understand how my own father would say such negative things to me. Especially trying to get all holy since HE IS DISFELLOWSHIPED?!
What a douche bag. He’s dead to me now. Esp since he getting all high and mighty. He even said he’s going trying to go meeting now, because I’m messing up. He’s really dead to me.