yes , i talk quite openly about my time involved with jws and my daughters abuser (who we met at the kingdom hall ) i dont do this to gossip but as a warning not to even give jws the time of day as my girl could have been a different person today if i had not been so polite to them ! i was also once told i would have been stoned to death had i lived 2000 years ago ! people have found that hard to believe that in our society (uk ) that someone would actually say that !
Do You Feel Somewhat Liberated When You Talk About Your JW Past?
by minimus 33 Replies latest jw friends
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s0rt3d
Talking about it is liberating - and therapeutic however I 'talk' mostly via my anonymous blog since I've faded and don't want to relive the trauma of being hunted down by over zealous elders.
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cantleave
It's not just you. I am much more open about being an ex-JW than I ever was about being a JW.
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OnTheWayOut
I do talk to other ex-JW's on a regular basis, on JWN, on the phone, in person. I talk to family and coworkers that are trusted and want to know.
I discuss JW's in the most bizarre and basic terms when talking to family and coworkers. Many do not understand as well as ex-JW's, but they get that I am past the deception.
The liberating part is being able to answer differently than a JW would on questions like "Why don't they celebrate...?" "Why do they refuse blood?" "Why do they spend so much time knocking on doors?" I am able to give the believing-member answers and the true mind-control answers.
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Murray Smith
Sheet you crack me up
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wasblind
" When I tell people that I was a Witness, nobody can believe it! "
Hey Min,
does that mean you lie, cheat and steal now !!!!!!!
OMG !!!!!!
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Finally-Free
Liberated - yes. Talk about my past - NO! I don't want people to think I'm a complete fuckup. There aren't many things that can embarass me, but having been a cultist is one of them.
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minimus
When you tell people the unadulterated truth about the JWs it can be interesting.
I was asked, "Why don't Witnesses celebrate birthdays?". My response was " In the Bible, 2 people died on a birthday so Witnesses wouldn't want any association with that".
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straightshooter
Freedom is so great. I do not frequently talk about the past, because very few truly understand except on this forum.