Do You Feel Somewhat Liberated When You Talk About Your JW Past?

by minimus 33 Replies latest jw friends

  • WTWizard
    WTWizard

    Much more than trying to get people into the cancer. When Christmas comes around, I can actually discuss it without feeling pressure to drag people into a "Bah! Humbug!" mode. Instead, I can contribute something useful to it. I can also discuss materialism without totally bashing it--or investing time, money, and energy into something that is actually going to provide a return on my investment. Such as investing my time learning a few skills, money into gold and/or silver as a defense against hyperinflation, and energy making sure I have paddles when I find myself up that creek.

    As a witless, my time would have been invested in field circus and boasting sessions that would do nothing when we enter the Greatest Depression. My money would be wasted in the Worldwide Pedophile Defense Fund instead of gold and silver (or stocks and bonds, if I realistically believed another Paul Volcker was coming into the Fed or the Fed was going to get the kabosh). Energy would be wasted on getting people into the cancer. And worrying about all the stupid rules--I no longer worry about all the time I have to waste getting out in field circus, protecting the pedophiles and silencing the victims instead of protecting my purchasing power, or trying to drag others into the cancer.

  • 3Mozzies
    3Mozzies

    YES! I love explaining to people why I left. I start by saying that I was in a cult and now I am free! This always gets their attention and logically they ask which cult. Then the truth about the JW religion spews out of my mouth and it feels sooo soooo good. I am truly amazed how people don't know much about us. When I told one of my co-workers, she had no idea that we refuse blood and would let our children die because our leaders say so - citing 1 out-of-context bible verse.

    I always make sure I phrase things correctly so they understand how cult like we are, for example:

    Jehovah's Witnesses believe their leaders in NY speak for God, Jesus chose them in the spring of 1919. Soon God will destroy all of mankind (7 BILLION) and ONLY the few million JWs will survive to enter a edenic utopia paradise, petting lions and eating fruit. The leaders from NY will be transported to heaven and rule as Kings with Jesus over all the earth. They have declared Armageddon is coming on such & such a date quite a few times in their short 130 years, they even built a house in San Diego for the soon-to-be resurrected Noah, Abraham etc to live in. Anyone that is NOT a JW is classed as 'worldly' and under the control of Satan! This means YOU! Every single JW carries a suicide card with them at all times, "No blood transfusion", this little card is a signed document allowing the doctors to let them die (without blood) without being sued. If you disagree with anything they teach, you will be cut off from the church and every other JW - even your own family MUST shun you, unless you come back to the cult.

    Their faces after hearing that is priceless! After they pick up their dropped jaw I explain how I can now enjoy certain music, movies, books and I am allowed to think for myself and have my own opinion on whatever I choose.... etc

    It is drummed into the JWs heads that the world knows our beliefs and respects them... sorry but that is pure BS! My co-worker was shocked and sickened. She said: "I never talk to the witnesses when they come to my door and now I will tell everyone I know to stay away from them!" Ah another great day of anti-witnessing. I love it.

    3Mozzies

  • wasblind
    wasblind

    " I was asked, "Why don't Witnesses celebrate birthdays?". My response was " In the Bible, 2 people died on a birthday so Witnesses wouldn't want any association with that".

    That was my response also Min, now that I look back with open eyes I see it was more of an opinion from the WTS because

    there is nowhere in the Bible that says you are forbidden to celebrate the precious gift of life, as a matter of fact it is so precious

    that jesus came to give us a second chance that is everlasting. That's just how precious it is, so why not celebrate it

    Edit: And for those of you who think I'm a bit brash, yes I do believe in Jesus, and he accepts me and my short comings

  • minimus
    minimus

    I LOVED saying the TRUTH about the "Truth". When you hear it, it soooo stupid.

  • wasblind
    wasblind

    I know

  • LisaRose
    LisaRose

    Yes. It's been so long (11 years) that I rarely bring it up anymore, it's just not on my mind at this point. If it's relevant to a topic or is brought up by others, I do talk about it, and everytime I feel this lightening of spriit. I realize that I once was captive to these thoughts and beliefs and I'm free now. Freedom is great.

  • Balsam
    Balsam

    I tell people willing to listen.

    Last week a young man came by my house selling magazines. When he came to the door he said he wasn't a JW and he was a college student working with Urban Unity. Well I had to laugh because of course I used to be a JW. Because he said that I listened to his sales pitch and I subscribed to some magazines for my grandson.

    Funny thing was as I was sitting down to fill out the papers I told him I used to be a JW and it is a widely accepted religious cult. I told him about my son dying as a result of the cult insisting on us refusing blood for him. It was a good converstation and the boy and I both learned something about each other. It was kind of cool, he was a nice young man and my grandson will be happy.

    People need to know JW's are nothing more than a cult. We're planning on moving to Utah were we'll surrounded by Mormons. I've talked to lots of ex-mormons and they feel like we do about their religion being cultish.

  • VampireDCLXV
    VampireDCLXV

    A while ago I joined a mental wellness support group after being under a rock for the previous 2-3 years. At first I really didn't want to talk about the religion at all. I simply said that there was a social circle or group of people/friends I walked away from. It took me a while to open up about it; the fact that I was a JW and that it was a cult. One night, the topic of F.O.G. came up (Fear, Obligation, Guilt) and it felt like I was smashed upside my head with a two-by-four. I realized only then what a truly lousy place I had come from and then I had to talk about it. I now talk about it to anyone who wants to know and I'll talk about it if I hear about anyone coming in contact with JWs. I am silent no more...

    V665V665

  • cyberjesus
    cyberjesus

    ive told more people in the past year and half than in the past 39 years ..... ahahah before I would try to hide it as much as possible. I rememeber hiding on FS hoping nobody would recognize me.....

    Now I love to tell people that I was in a mind control cult...... they of course cant believe it.... yeah in a christian cult the Jehovahs witnesses.

  • alias
    alias

    I'm too deep in my extracting process and have too many active JWs in my inner circle to experience that clean-cut freedom feeling. Although I feel free-er.

    alias

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