I also wish you well, though I'm sure you'll be back. Sometimes its good to take a step back, take a breath, and remember what's important. I'm guilty of losing sight of what I find important, and instead latching on to a detail like a dog with a bone, lol. I don't often realize I'm doing this until I'm forced away from whatever environment that is, and then I can take a breath and refocus.
Peace to you and your smart wife,
Tammy