The Apostle Paul made clear that a ministerial servant had to be a husband of one wife.
The view of marriage as an influence for good upon men is clear from scripture. It is security for women and
a proper enviornment for children.
You'd think that after the reputation of Eve upon mankind marriage would be anathema. Yet, oddly, this is not the case.
Why?
Women spread sanity by insisting on order, respect, structure and predictability in the home.
Men are forced to NEGOTIATE for women's favor rather than merely taking what they want.
The benefits to a family, tribe and nation from co-operative women far outweighs any temporary solace from forcing
them slave-like to perform perfunctory duties.
The more enlightened the society the more elevated is the status of women.
Don't let the visible political POWER STRUCTURE fool you!
You only have to look at the greatest figure (arguably) in all of history: ALEXANDER THE GREAT to see this is true.
Alexander's mother had complete and absolute influence upon her son. His view of himself, of Greece and of power came directly
from her maternal management, instruction and control over him.
Alexander changed the structure of the entire world!
Julius Ceasar may have been the greatest General Rome ever had but Cleopatra was able to persuade, cajole and entice this noble Roman
into elevating her and their son into a postion of highest favor.
When he was assassainated she did the same with his best friend, Marc Antony.
History presents women of influence with a nasty sideways slap by labeling them pejoratively. But, the truth is clear.
David was, we are told, a favorite of Jehovah. David was utterly under the power and influence of Bathsheba.
Whatever it took to obtain her favor he was willing to do.
Women have found a way to build structure into the power grid of a man dominated rule by the most practical and sane methodology all through history. Women understand the weakness of men. They can exploit it and transform the weakness into social order.
MEN NEED WOMEN.
The smartest women are able to negotiate concessions without men being aware they are making them.
Wives, daughters, mothers, teachers, king-makers: women.
Barak Obama and Michelle. Hillary and Bill. George W. and Laura. J.F.K. and Jackie.
The wives are essential.
Christianity was spread by the direct influence of women behind the men who made the world change.