Anyway, what I took away from the OP's post was this:
If we are acting in the same way as those we hate, then we have become the thing we hated. (or we have not escaped it as much as we thought... yet)
We have the choice to be or do or say whatever we want, absolutely. (depending on the freedom of speech laws in your country, and not all the laws are the same... they vary even between the US and Canada, regarding hate speech) But we should take a look at ourselves, and examine whether or not our behavior is better than those we 'hate'. Because it doesn't always seem that it is.
Tammy