We need to build up not tear down.
Now, that sounds very JW-ish, Minimus. I heard similar sentiments from the KH platform! At the same time, even I concede it's a helpful principle - however it shouldn't be used "against" posters who have alternative points of view on a thread. I've noticed that as soon as anyone expresses an alternative view on what some other posters write, it's viewed as personal and negative. I'm so pleased this forum accepts alternative views and, in general, there's a robust acceptance that opinions vary - sometimes widely vary.