Lets say I hate Apples, I mean, lets say I really hate Apples. You eat Apples right? Well in order for me to associate with you I need to know that you are not going to just whip an Apple out at any moment, because I can't handle the sight or smell of them; especially when someone crunches down on them...disgusting... In fact, I don't even like it that you eat them when I am not around. I tell you that you need to solemnly promise to me that you will never eat Apples again or else our relationship is over.
You decide that I am crazy and tell me that I can't tell you what you can and cannot eat. You tell me that it's abusive to hold our friendship over your head over such an issue. So you tell me to get professional help and hope that I get better so that we can reconnect. Is it logical for me to blame you for the end our friendship?
-Sab