"The Secret of Family Happiness": Watchtower Style
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Eastie man held in wife's strangling
Source: Boston Herald
Arrival time: 2002-02-04
A nasty custody battle and divorce turned deadly in East Boston when a city tow truck driver strangled his wife with a necktie and then fled to a New Hampshire ski resort where the couple vacationed and tried to kill himself, officials and sources said.
"He just wanted to stay in the house with his kids," said a close friend of Kevin Hensley. "I think it just got too overwhelming for him and he didn't know what to do and this is what happened."
Hensley, a 55-year-old Boston Transportation Department employee, allegedly strangled his wife, Nancy, in the family's Byron Street home Thursday afternoon. The couple, who have four kids, were in the midst of a bitter divorce that began just three weeks ago when Nancy Hensley, 45, tossed her husband out of the house and got a restraining order against him.
According to police, the couple's oldest daughter made the grim discovery in the basement of the home around 2:15 p.m. and called 911, saying that her mother was unconscious and her head was covered. A source said Hensley was strangled with a necktie.
Kevin Hensley, described by friends and neighbors as a hard-working father, was not at the home when police arrived. Thursday night, Waterville Valley police officers found Hensley unconscious in his wife's 2000 Buick LeSabre. A source said he attached a hose to the exhaust pipe and stuffed it in the window in an apparent suicide attempt.
He was taken to a local hospital where he recovered and was arrested by New Hampshire state police on a Bay State warrant charging him with his wife's slaying. He was ordered held without bail after a hearing yesterday in Plymouth (N.H.) District Court. He is due back in that court Feb. 28 but prosecutors hope to bring him back to Massachusetts sooner to face the murder charges, Suffolk County District Attorney's Office spokesman David Procopio said.
Kevin Hensley's friend, who didn't want his name used, said the couple used to vacation at the New Hampshire ski resort.
"Waterville Valley was a place where he and Nancy would go in happier times," the friend said. "He just went there and was trying to remember the happy times."
The friend said Hensley was "embarrassed" when he was served with a restraining order last month at work. He described the Hensleys as "the perfect couple" and said they "fought no more than anyone else."
In court papers, Nancy Hensley claimed her husband was "violent," verbally abusive and once punched a hole in a wall. She also said he recently spied on her at a local gym, sporting a phony beard and sunglasses.
"I was at Bally's and he was there in disguise, with a fake beard and sunglasses, stalking me for 45 minutes," she wrote in a court affidavit obtained by the Herald. "Then he seen (sic) me speaking with someone for 3 minutes and he came over and verbally abused me and left. I stayed out for a while going food shopping because I was afraid to go home."
She also alleged that he violated the restraining order several times by going to the Byron Street home. The divorce and a motion to extend the restraining order were still pending but the case was moved out of Suffolk County to Middlesex County because Nancy Hensley's sister worked as a secretary for the Suffolk judge assigned to the case, court papers show.
Kevin Hensley's friend said
Nancy Hensley was a recently converted Jehovah's Witness and claimed that "someone was guiding her in this (divorce)." "Someone was telling her what to do. I hope that person who guided her is happy now,"
the friend said. Neighbors yesterday said the Hensleys appeared to be a happy family. Nancy Hensley often jogged and rode bicycles with their daughters, ages 20 and 10, while Kevin Hensley shot hoops and worked on the house with their sons, ages 17 and 6. In the summer, the family's swimming pool was filled with the children and their friends.Nancy Hensley, who was unemployed, was recalled by one female relative yesterday as a "good mother." Alice Norton, the Hensleys' 81- year-old wheelchair-bound neighbor, called Nancy Hensley a "beautiful person" who often stopped by to check on her.
"She was a lovely, lovely lady," Norton said. "They're very nice people. I'm just shocked that this happened."David Weber contributed to this report.
Publication date: 2002-02-02
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While we do not have anything like all the facts, and with great sympathy to the family involved, and sorrow that the tragedy ever occurred - I boldly contend that the principles of Justice demand that the law be modified so that certain leaders (at the local and other levels) of the Jehovah's Witnesses Cult SHOULD BE CHARGED WITH MURDER, alongside Kevin Hensley. This man probably opposed the conversion, hated the evil done to the wife he loved, observed the huge deterioration in her life... and tried his best to persuade her to come out of the Whore.
So he was considered bad association - and we know what the Watchtower publication "The Secret of Family Happiness" (1996,1998) says:
***fy 160-1ABSOLUTE SPIRITUAL ENDANGERMENT...
GROUNDS FOR SEPARATION Are there situations that may justify separation or possibly divorce from a marriage mate even if that one has not committed fornication? Yes .. What are some extreme situations that may make a separation seem advisable? .. if a spouse constantly tries to force a marriage mate to break God's commands in some way, the threatened mate may also consider separation, especially if matters reach the point where spiritual life is endangered. The partner at risk may conclude that the only way to 'obey God as ruler rather than men' is to obtain a legal separation. -Acts 5:29.. mature friends and elders may offer support and Bible-based counsel .. if an extremely dangerous situation persists, no one should criticize her if she chooses to separate.. It is not true, as some assert, that Jehovah's Witnesses divide families.
We can well guess what Kevin may well have gone through with the rabid one before he snapped. With grown-up kids, he did almost all the work, and she was an unpaid slave for the Watchtower who told EVERYONE how foolish, ignorant (or wicked and Satanic) they were and how they would be swiftly destroyed and .. You Know.
Yet another Family utterly destroyed by the Watchtower, one can reasonably surmise.
BAN THIS FILTHY, DISGUSTING, MURDEROUS FAMILY-DESTROYING VIRUS THAT MASQUERADES AS A RELIGION..
One might say, the best greeting you can give that special knocker at your door is a bucket of water, liberally applied (and an apology for the accident, of course - but do take legal advice appropriate for your jurisdiction first, as jWs and the Watchtower itself, who all teach that Satan rules the Courts and legal institutions, seem to love running to Satan). Try to get both with one fling. The time they spend having to go back and change will be that much less time spent on the door-to-door infection work
YOU MIGHT WELL SAVE A LIFE THAT WAY.
Had someone done that to the evil or brainwashed Disease-vector(s) scheduled to later knock on Nancy's door, Nancy would probably now be alive, sharing a happy life with her husband and kids.
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