So the first quote referenced is the 7/15/2011 Watchtower quote which reads:
"What is involved in avoiding false teachers? We do not receive them into our homes or greet them. We also refuse to read their literature, watch TV programs that feature them, examine their Web sites, or add our comments to their blogs."
Here's the way I see internet forums. If I was in a public place - say, doing street witnessing - and a person approached me and challenged me on some issue then and there - perhaps he is DF'ed, or DA'ed, or inactive, or never-JW, we don't know - and some people are watching, I would have two options. I could (1) ignore him, or (2) refute his claims. I would choose option 2 for the benefit of the onlookers, and to hone my ability to answer claims made about my faith. (1 Peter 3:15.)
JWN may in general lean toward apostasy, it may be mostly apostates here, yet it purports to be "The place to discuss anything relating to Jehovah's Witnesses and the WatchTower Bible and Tract Society... or just make new friends!" No restriction on JW defenders. It isn't like, say, the Yuku Ex-Jehovah's Witness Forum. It doesn't claim to be an apostate website. Nor is it a blog where adding a comment would be like going to an apostate's home to talk to him about his ideas.
The Watchtower could easily have said, 'What is involved in avoiding false teachers? We do not receive them into our homes or greet them. We also refuse to read their literature, watch TV programs that feature them, examine their Web sites, add our comments to their blogs, or participate on forums where they are present.' But they didn't. That, to me, is significant.
From page 1:
isaacaustin suggests I tell my elders I post here. Why would I do that? It is websites like this that claim that Witnesses must run to their elders to make their decisions for them. I, however, can make conscientious decisions for myself.
sleepingbeauty: Is this an apostate website? Then why am I allowed to post here?
From page 2:
LostGeneration: I don't think refuting apostates constitutes following them.
palmtree67: Okay, when does "advise" constitute a command?
AnnOMaly references a quote from the 2006 Watchtower. Does JWN constitute an apostate website? It is overrun with apostates, yes, but it is an open forum after all.
From page 3:
pirata gives us several quotes. First is the simplified Watchtower of 7/15/2011. But the regular magazine makes clear that the reference is to blogs. As I mentioned, this site is more of a public discussion (forum) then a private conversation.
As for the September Kingdom Ministry, this website is not what is described there. The July Kingdom Ministry of the same month is referring to socializing, which is not my intent here. The article also does not forbid associating with persons over the internet, it simply says that there are dangers and that it is dangerous for children.
The September 2002 Kingdom Ministry does not mention forums. If the reference is to my blog, you can see that paragraph 6 is talking about information for the public. My blog is not for the public in general.
leapofthefrog: I've already seen the apostate arguments, so it's too late for that advice.
Mickey mouse: I've seen dumber subjects debated.
serenitynow!: You all are not more up to date than me. I looked at the 7/15/2011 Watchtower the day it was released in PDF at jw.org.
From page 4:
jwfacts: Refuting publicly made claims is not the same as associating. I associate with my friends, I teach in the field ministry. Both involve interaction with other people but they are not the same.
Concluding this post:
"Andre, who had served Jehovah for years, had the bitter experience of being led astray by apostate thinking. He felt that having a quick look at an apostate Web site would not be dangerous. He recalls: “Initially, I was attracted to the so-called truths that the apostates spoke of. The more I examined what they said, the more I came to think that I was justified in leaving Jehovah’s organization. But later, as I did some research on the apostates’ arguments against Jehovah’s Witnesses, I became aware of how crafty the false teachers were. Information taken out of context was their ‘strong evidence’ against us. Thus, I decided to start reading our publications again and to attend the meetings. Soon I realized how much I had missed.” Happily, Andre returned to the congregation." -p. 19
I see this to mean that those who are already exposed to apostate arguments who do honest research on them will see them to be false. If one has already researched them then surely refuting those who present them presents no harm.