Contrary to popular church belief, God's not in charge of the world. He didn't save the apostles and he's not going to save anybody else. People who believe in faith healing, angels protecting pioneers, etc. are deluded. God doesn't even grant what we ask for in prayers, so don't bother. Prayer is a form of worship, not a grocery list; remember that. Don't ask God to find you a job that works with your meeting nights. Don't expect miracles just because you're a good person or do what you think you're supposed to do. There is no reward in this life. This life sucks and it's not fair; that's the whole point: Without God running things, this is what we get.
Churches have a couple of major things wrong that screw up everybody's understanding:
- We are created in God's image.
- Everything is God's will.
First of all, Adam and Eve were created. We were born - born of imperfection, even. We are not hand-made by God and that's why some people are born with horrible defects, or with diseases.
Nothing here is God's will. It's all random and the odds are against us. God doesn't make us be born and he doesn't make us die. He doesn't make us better when we're ill and he doesn't test us with problems. He's completely hands-off. This isn't ancient Israel and there are no apostles who will be granted whatever they ask for in Jesus' name.