My dad lost control a lot and physically abused me, and my little brother, for many years. Through all of this I watched him go through the steps to become and elder within the community; I was proud of him in an odd way. Yet, I couldn't help but wonder why the witnesses felt so confident that God chooses the elders. My dad got removed for getting a DUI. Funny that it took the system to expose his "less than elder material" qualities.
That's the way it was explained to me time and time again. "Jehovah will sort it out" and when my dad was removed the abuse was not mentioned, just the fact that he got a DUI.
-Sab