by mochamint22 22 Replies latest jw experiences
I am no counselor, but it sounds like you're suffering from learned helplessness. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Learned_helplessness
You can break this cycle, and you must for the sake of your kids. Talk to your therapist about it, and get away from this toxic man as soon as possible.
It's time to lock yourself into a new future. Tell yourself your strong and forward thinking become steely in your resolve and don't allow yourself the luxury of emotion save it for later when your have your life in order. There is a time for everything be strong.
mochamint22: my heart goes out to you.
there is only one type of relationship that works ( and that is worth it too )
That is one based on mutual respect. You are not in that kind of relationship, from what you say.
Seek help. Good luck.
