I just received a respnse back from the Women's Safe House of St. Louis:
I read the paragraph and it definitely seems to reflect victim-blaming rather than placing the responsibility of the violence squarely on the shoulders of the perpetrator.
There are individuals in St. Louis that provide spiritual counseling for women victims/survivors of violence.
I also work with a group of domestic and sexual violence advocates outside of my office. We work toward dispelling myths within the Church about the teachings of Christ toward intimate relationships.
Thanks again for the work that you are doing to end violence against women and girls.